Weddings are full of magical moments, but one that stands out for it's raw emotion and genuine connection, is the moment when the couples sees each other for the first time. This unique moment not only captures authentic emotions but also creates a everlasting memory, whether you decide to have a first look or wait to see each other down the aisle.
WHAT IS A FIRST LOOK
During a first look, the couple sees each other for the first time in their wedding outfits before the ceremony in a secluded area away from guests and family eyes. While there are different ways to do a first look, it usually involves one partner waiting at the location until the other arrives. When they meet, the first partner turns around, creating an intimate and unique moment between them and as the moment unfolds the wedding photographer will capture candid photos of the couple. As the couple locks eyes during the first look, a wave of emotions washes over them.
From tears of joy to uncontrollable smiles, the rawness of the moment is palpable. It's a chance for the couple to express their love and share a private, heartfelt moment before they exchange vows in front of their loved ones. The first look captures a range of emotions that set the tone for the rest of the day.
It's a moment where time stands still, and all that matters is the connection between two people in love but what are the Pros and Cons of Doing a Wedding First Look?
A BREAK FROM TRADITION
There’s an age-old wedding tradition that says couples aren’t supposed to see one another on their big day until they walk down the aisle. Is believed to be bad luck if the couple sees each other before the ceremony. While some couples prefer the anticipation of seeing each other for the first time at the altar, there's an increasing number of couples opting for a "first look" to have a private moment beforehand.
This modern twist on tradition allows the couple to share a personal, intimate experience without distractions and it offers a chance to calm nerves, exchange private thoughts and revel in the significance of the day before the whirlwind of the ceremony begins.
THE ROLE OF THE WEDDING PLANNER AND PHOTOGRAPHER
Wedding planners and photographers play a vital role in orchestrating the first look seamlessly. From choosing the perfect location for the reveal to coordinating the timing together, they will ensure that the moment unfolds flawlessly. Their expertise helps couples create a first look that is both memorable and stress-free.
The Pros and Cons of Doing a Wedding First Look
THE PROS:
NO ONE IS WATCHING
Having fewer people around can alleviate the pressure of controlling emotions or reactions in front of guests. Couples tend to express themselves more genuinely when they are alone and the intensity of emotions and magic is heightened in such moments!
TIME TO TAKE IN YOUR WEDDING DAY
It gives couples a moment together to take in their wedding day before the celebration begins. First looks provide the chance to connect and relax before being surrounded by your family and friends.
MORE TIME TO ENJOY YOUR WEDDING
By capturing most of your portraits before the ceremony (including wedding party and family photos), you can participate in and enjoy the cocktail hour with your guests instead of having to organize a photo shoot at that time. Including a first look in your schedule means your photographer won't have to interrupt you after the celebration, allowing you to fully immerse yourself in the moment and enjoy your celebration.
MORE TIME FOR PICTURES
If you’re having a winter wedding or if you're having a summer wedding and you plan on getting married at sunset, first-looks guarantee you have plenty of time to get portraits taken during daylight.
YOU WILL ALLEVIATE ANY WEDDING NERVOUSNESS
On your wedding day, you will be the center of attention, and it is normal to feel nervous. Opting for a first look before the ceremony can offer a calm moment and alleviate any wedding anxiety and worries.
THE CONS:
YOU'LL BREAK TRADITION
If you, your partner or your families are superstitious or even0 religious opting for a first look may not be for you!
YOU’LL HAVE TO START THE DAY EARLIER
Having a First Look means you're adding more to do before the ceremony and you'll have to get ready earlier, which can mean waking up really early in the morning (may not be for you if you're not a morning person). On the bright side, if anything takes longer than anticipated, like hair and make-up it gives you plenty of time to get ready and have pictures taken without big changes to your wedding timeline and without feeling rushed.
NO MORE SUSPENSE
By delaying the moment when you see your partner until the ceremony, the anticipation grows, creating a heightened sense of suspense and intensity, making the moment more emotionally charged and dramatic. Opting for a first look, however, means you and your significant other won't have to wait as long to see each other, potentially impacting your going down the aisle experience.
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